Personal Coaching

Your Healing. YOur Values. Your Journey.

Personal coaching is a partnership that’s specifically designed around your needs, your integrity, and your growth. You will gain a skilled ally—someone who really listens, protects your privacy, and knows exactly how to help.

This is a place where you can admit the ways you’re hurting and heal the hidden wounds, instead of running from pain in unhealthy ways. You can rebuild your life with authenticity and alignment, instead of hiding your true personality in the hope to be liked.

This isn’t another generic solution, but a personal journey that’s truly life-changing. And because of the personalized support this requires, I can only assist a small handful of clients at a time. So if you’ve been struggling to find real, lasting change, please click below. Because you deserve it.

 

Here’s How I Help!

I help people to heal the pain they’ve buried and live according to their deepest values.

 
 

Did you know?

When you suppress your emotions, they don’t just vanish—they go underground. They build pressure beneath the surface, quietly shaping your thoughts, your relationships, your habits… even your sense of who you are.

You might not feel the pain directly—but you feel the symptoms. It’s the silent force behind your craving for mindless distractions and addictive habits. It keeps you stuck in obsessive blame and angry outbursts you regret later. It fuels the critical voice in your head that says you’re never good enough.

And the most dangerous part is… you don’t even realize that pain is what’s driving it all.

You might be hard on yourself for your faults and mistakes. But most likely, no one ever taught you what to do with the pain you’ve been carrying. You’ve been doing the best you can—without the tools you needed.

If there’s one main thing I’ve helped people with over the years, it’s learning how to heal their pain directly, so it stops silently running their lives from beneath the surface.

And when that happens?
Everything starts to change—your habits, your self-worth, your relationships.

Just click the big red button below to get in touch with me. We can schedule a free consultation to discuss what’s on your mind.

I will help you to:

  • Break your addiction to instant gratification and cheap validation

  • Release overwhelming emotions like shame or resentment

  • Reprogram your mind from self-criticism to self-understanding

  • Navigate difficult conversations with integrity and confidence

  • Cultivate habits that you enjoy and feel proud of

  • Establish an unshakeable sense of identity and purpose 

 

Happy Clients:

“To my surprise, within a couple weeks, I was no longer struggling.” — Kat

“Damodar made me feel like I could talk about anything without worrying about being judged or criticized. — Marco “Manohar” P.

 
 

More Success Stories

  • “When I started coaching with Damodar, I was holding on to a lot of blame and anger, both towards and myself and other people. I often felt overwhelmed with anxiety while interacting with people. And I was struggling with addiction on almost a daily basis.

    But what’s amazing is that now it’s hard to even relate to that condition I was so absorbed in before. I’ve become more self-controlled, accepting of my situation, and confident in myself. I think the core of what helped me was the safe space Damodar provided to talk about sensitive matters, and the gentle grounding of the journaling exercises we did. This coaching process really helped me to understand my own feelings, and find the path forward to heal and grow from my experiences.

    I've rekindled friendships, relationships, and experienced a new sense of grounding, focus, and creativity. I was able to build a strong morning practice of yoga, mantra meditation, and exercise, which has boosted my overall well-being in a big way. Journaling became a strong habit for me, even though I had tried before without much success. Overall, Damodar inspired me to be more honest and to pursue greater integrity in my life.

    I feel like Damodar’s genuine care for others was the driving force behind my transformation. And I would recommend him to anyone who’s struggling with difficult emotions, addictions, or even anyone who wants to explore and more deeply understand their own life and feelings.” — Chris

  • “For many years I had an addiction. I felt so ashamed that I went out of my way to keep it a secret, even while seeking help. I’ve actually done coaching with Damodar for over five years now, and we’ve written down my whole life story together. I began to realize that my addiction makes perfect sense given my rough circumstances and sensitive nature. I also began to see my way out of it and actually reached over one year of complete sobriety. I’ve become more assertive and self-satisfied in my dealings with others. I’ve learned how to accept my feelings and take greater responsibility. The experience of having Damodar get to know me so personally, and still be warm and accepting, has been the opposite of shame. He’s a great guy.”

    — Darrien

  • “When I first started coaching, I was imposing a value system on myself that didn’t actually reflect my innermost self and desires. I was really just absorbing the value systems of other people out of fear of rejection or conflict, while half-heartedly passing them off as my own. But Damodar helped me see parts of myself that I wasn’t allowing myself access to. With his kind and steady help, I began to discover my own voice - and a deep, genuine self-confidence.”

    — Andy

  • “For years I had journaled on and off, always with the intention to make it a daily habit, but was never able to maintain the practice. Damodar’s habit tracker and stimulating journal prompts helped me rediscover my love for journaling and it’s been a consistent daily habit for me ever since.

    I appreciated the insights Damodar offered, and especially the way in which he offered them. Rather than just telling me how to improve, he helped guide my introspections in a way that I was able to see the deeper causes of negative habits and understand why I developed them as coping strategies, as well as the valid need I was trying to meet, and how I could meet that need in healthier ways. In this way, he showed me how transforming habits is not as much a process of self-neglect and restraint, but rather self-care.

    In working with Damodar, I was also able to see subtle connections between different tendencies in my life that were previously unnoticed. This was highly empowering and motivating to know that addressing and working on the root of one problem would enhance multiple aspects of my life; and my experience since then has confirmed this to be true. He is extremely insightful, relatable, non-judgmental, comforting, but also challenging when I need that. It's clear that Damodar is integral in practicing and living what he teaches.”

    — D.K. New York

  • “I have been in an ongoing struggle with addiction and anger for a long time, as well as self-destructive thoughts about my personal image and identity. But through our conversations Damodar helped me to gain the insights I was hoping for. I got a better sense of what I can positively appreciate in myself. I saw how my past traumas can be triggered by events in my current life, and how that can be a catalyst to patterns of thinking and acting that I’d be better off to avoid.

    I learned how to handle conflict in a way where I can be empathetic both to myself and the other person. I learned how to be kind to myself by celebrating my wins, and not looking at every “loss” as evidence that I’m a failure. I have more insight now about my heroes and role models in life, and how they had paved the way of my morals and ethics that have been buried in my heart since my young adulthood.

    I appreciated Damodar’s kindness, his attention to detail in our conversations, and the sincerity in his responses. He’s a very good listener, very thoughtful, and he asks honest and thought-provoking questions. I felt like he could really empathize with me in a way that I had been needing, and it really made me feel comfortable to open up about sensitive matters.”

    — Tony Doggett

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Unique 1:1 Coaching Features

Here’s Why You Need Coaching…

…How it Works, and Exactly What to Expect

✅ A Safe and Judgment-Free EnviRONMENT

Talking to a friend can be helpful—sometimes. When you open up to a friend, they might make the conversation about themselves, or offer advice that they need to hear more than you do. You might worry you’re just burdening them with your problems, or that they might talk behind your back. You might need more support than they’re willing, or able to provide. These concerns are normal and valid.

What I offer is different. Everything you share with me is protected by my privacy policy. So you’re free to really open up about sensitive matters, without having to worry about being misunderstood or judged anymore. Not only that, but you can rest assured that I’ve already helped many people with similar pains as you. So you can feel at home just being yourself because I know exactly how to help. Together, we will transform your struggles into a genuine path forward that gives you real hope. We’ll flip your harsh self-judgments into self-understanding, guided by clear and positive values.

✅ Regular Sessions to Keep You On Track

The teachers you admire aren’t always available to get to know you before they answer your questions. Even when you have the best self-help books, videos, or group workshops, you might be left wondering how to actually apply what you’ve learned in the messy, complex reality of your life. But it’s not your fault that this is hard to do. It’s nearly impossible to see your own blind spots or take step back from your normal patterns of thinking. We’re all so used to the emotional patterns, coping strategies, and thought loops that we developed while growing up. They feel so normal to us—even necessary for survival. So you’re stuck not because you’re different, bad, or broken, but because your patterns are mostly subconscious. It’s just human nature.

What you really need is an outsider’s perspective—someone who can see what you can’t see, who asks the right questions, and offers the particular reminders you need. By regularly meeting with me, you’ll gain the structure and support you need to consisently pivot into better choices. And over time, as we develop our personal relationship, the way I support you will become more and more grounded in a deep understanding of your unique history and psychology—because lasting change happens in the context of deep understanding, trust, and hope.

✅ Guided Journaling on the Questions That Really Matter

Everyone has advice. But very few people take the time to truly listen first. Fewer still will help you uncover the right questions. But questions are so important. The quality of your life is shaped by your the choices you make. Your choices are shaped by your thinking. And your thinking is crafted by the questions you ask.

I’ll help you cut through the brain-fog, indecision, and self-conflict that’s holding you hostage by finding the exact questions that you—as a unique individual—need to be asking. Then, through my unique process of Guided Journaling, I will make it easy for you to find deep, honest answers. These answers will become the foundation for the identity and growth that you’re meant to experience in your life. And for that reason, we will put these answers into writing—writing that becomes a personal manifesto worth keeping for the rest of your life.

✅ Clear Goals You Can Actually Reach

Based on our Coaching Sessions and Guided Journaling, we’ll uncover exactly what truly matters to you the most—not just what you think you should want, but what your heart is quietly aching for. Together, we’ll turn those insights into clear, meaningful goals. On your own, this can be hard to do because of perfectionism, all-or-nothing thinking, or feeling torn between desire that seem to be mutually-exclusive. But I will help you to integrate these contradictions into one, and get grounded into some achievable goals that give you real traction and hope for a brighter future.

✅ Gentle Accountability That Doesn’t Let You Drift

When setbacks happen (and they will), I’ll be there to brace you, so you don’t spiral into toxic shame, isolation, or hopelessness. You won’t fall through the cracks or be left to figure it all out on your own. Instead, you’ll develop a growth mindset. We’ll use your mistakes as meaningful openings—doorways to deeper self-understanding and renewed commitment. You will no longer have the fear that failure means anything bad or permanent about who you are. This will free you to really try your best (because you can’t do any better than that).

About Me: From Monk to Mentor

Vrindavana, India

My name is Damodar. If you’ve ever heard words like karma, yoga, or guru before, my name comes from the same ancient language: Sanskrit. But feel free to call me Dom.

I’m a coach, a writer, and a former monk. I first discovered my passion for coaching in 2015, when I volunteered at a Suicide Hotline. Since then, I’ve been an avid reader, attendee of trainings, and gained literally hundreds of hours of coaching experience.

I take the time to listen and get to know my clients as deeply as possible, so I can match them with tailored solutions from established modalities—both modern and ancient—to meet each person’s unique needs and aspirations.

I’ve had a lot of success guiding people through struggles with shame, perfectionism, addiction, and resentment—not from a distance, but as someone with the scars to prove that I’ve been through the same battles and come out the other side successfully. My promise to offer you coaching services that are confidential, professional, and which deliver the results you need. Come be a part of this unique opportunity that so many people have already benefited from.

Learn more about my story and experience.

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Frequently Asked Questions

  • I understand that investing in coaching can feel like a big step. That’s why I offer a full refund for up to 4 used initial sessions if you decide to stop coaching. This means you can explore the process, experience the benefits, and see if it’s the right fit for you without any financial risk.

    Many clients find that the clarity, confidence, and tools they gain through coaching continue to positively impact their lives long after our sessions end. You can check out my testimonials to get a sense of how I’ve been able to help others already.

    I’m committed to helping you find value in this experience. If you’re still unsure, you’re welcome to join my WhatsApp Mentorship Community to observe my style and decide if this is the right step for you.

  • Coaching isn’t about finding a best friend—it’s about getting real results. Even if we don’t ‘click’ instantly, I still use practical tools and a clear framework that have helped others in your situation. What matters most is that you feel challenged and supported in the right ways.

    But to ensure that we’re a great fit, I welcome you to join my Mentorship Community on WhatsApp. It’s a space where you can observe my coaching style, how interact with others, and see if we align before making a commitment.

  • Therapy Needs Its Soul Back

    For thousands of years, psychology and philosophy worked hand in hand. People couldn’t imagine trying to comprehend the human mind without first considering our unique role in the universe as free-thinking beings. In modern times, however, therapists are required to separate the two, stripping the healing process of its deeper existential meaning.

    The standard therapist’s manual, the DSM-5, for example, only identifies something as a problem if it causes distress or impairs daily functioning. These are important areas to address, but why is there is no concern for personal values or integrity? These things are exactly what makes us human beings rather than animals.

    Until recently, problems were defined not just by what disrupted practical living but by what obstructed meaningful living. While we now focus on anxiety and depression as issues, our ancestors also named lust, laziness, and cowardice as flaws to overcome. What if overlooking these character flaws is the actual reason we’re anxious and depressed in the first place? Even though many therapists intuitively understand this, standardized rules and regulations keep them from saying anything.

    As a former monk, I’ve spent years of my life studying ancient wisdom texts From India and Greece, and applying them to modern life. I believe that clear values and integrity are the foundation for mental health. For this reason, I reunite psychology and philosophy in the tradition way, blending timeless wisdom with practical tools to help you navigate a confusing world. The truth is, in a society that bombards us with endless cheap distractions, this is exactly what you need—a clear value system that is inspired by great individuals of the past.

    I’m inviting you to a new way of seeing the world—one that challenges you to grow into a person who truly stands for something, and is not afraid of judgement or discomfort while accomplishing your mission. If you accept this offer, then you’re destined for greatness and a sense of accomplishment that comes from strength and meaningful progress.